Snippets
Thanks
so much to Marcy for letting me visit the blog today!
Marcy
always has the most beautiful pictures as her headers. They’re snippets of life
and remind me of the way Dancing With Dementia developed.
The book
is the story of our journey through the early steps of our dance with dementia.
It’s also a guide for other families facing these first steps. We hope what we’ve
learned (so often the hard way!) will help others as they learn to dance with
dementia.
The
majority of the book is devoted to our journey and to Lizzie, our mom.
Because
we had no context for what regular aging looked like (all of our relatives live
in Scotland), we were taken by surprise by dementia. We missed a lot of clues
that some things weren’t progressing as normal. We brushed off a lot of
incidents as Mom being Mom or as random odd, behaviours instead of
recognizing those behaviours as the norm.
As we
started to realize the depths of the problems, I started recording them in
writing. Not with the intention of writing a book, but with the intention of
helping us remember weird events and when things happened.
When
someone suggested putting all of our learnings into a book, the fabric of the
book was already begun. Snippets. These snippets needed to be rewritten,
organized, and woven together into a cohesive whole, but the format worked.
For us,
recognizing dementia came in a series of small hints and puzzle pieces. Bits
and pieces of life that seemed separate but really weren’t. The underlying
themes were there, we just didn’t have enough experience to recognize them.
We hope
our snippets of love, laughter, tears, joy, and sorrow can help others facing
these first steps in the dance of dementia.
How
about you? Have you read/written a book that was told in short, bite-sized
stories? Do you enjoy those short stories all connected within a larger
storyline?
It’s a pleasure to be participating in author Jemi Fraser’s DANCING WITH DEMENTIA, Recognizing and Coping with the Early Stages of Dementia Blog Tour through MC Book Tours today.
Jemi is offering a tour-wide international giveaway of an Amazon
Gift Card. More information on the giveaway is listed below.
Gift Card. More information on the giveaway is listed below.
Recognizing and Coping with the Early Stages of Dementia
by Jemi Fraser
by Jemi Fraser
◊ Genre: Nonfiction, Memoir
◊ Publisher: Just Jemi Books
◊ eBooks
◊ ISBN-13: 978-1-9991258-1-3
◊ Publisher: Just Jemi Books
◊ eBooks
◊ ISBN-13: 978-1-9991258-1-3
Dementia and Alzheimer’s touch the lives of millions around the
world, but so much is still unknown.
world, but so much is still unknown.
As first-generation Canadians, we didn’t recognize
the early warning signs. We didn’t know the differences between regular aging
and the early stages of dementia. We’ve made mistakes but we’ve learned a lot.
the early warning signs. We didn’t know the differences between regular aging
and the early stages of dementia. We’ve made mistakes but we’ve learned a lot.
DANCING
WITH DEMENTIA will help you:
•Identify those early warning signs
•Use visuals to improve communication
•Choose your words wisely
•Redirect and reassure
•Stay calm and cope with your own emotions
•Consider nursing home options
•Improve caregiver self-care
WITH DEMENTIA will help you:
•Identify those early warning signs
•Use visuals to improve communication
•Choose your words wisely
•Redirect and reassure
•Stay calm and cope with your own emotions
•Consider nursing home options
•Improve caregiver self-care
We’ve learned to dance the early steps of the
disease with our love and laughter intact. If you are looking for help
recognizing early signposts along with practical ways to cope with early
Dementia and Alzheimer’s, this book is for you.
disease with our love and laughter intact. If you are looking for help
recognizing early signposts along with practical ways to cope with early
Dementia and Alzheimer’s, this book is for you.
For those
who aren’t familiar with the author, here’s a bit of background on her.
who aren’t familiar with the author, here’s a bit of background on her.
Jemi Fraser
writes both fiction and nonfiction. Her nonfiction work focuses on the ways
that dementia has impacted her family. Her fiction work varies from
contemporary romance to suspense and flash fiction. Years as a teacher have
taught Jemi that life is short and that happy endings are a must.
writes both fiction and nonfiction. Her nonfiction work focuses on the ways
that dementia has impacted her family. Her fiction work varies from
contemporary romance to suspense and flash fiction. Years as a teacher have
taught Jemi that life is short and that happy endings are a must.
Jemi lives
in Northern Ontario, Canada where snow is always a topic of conversation and
the autumn leaves make everything better.
in Northern Ontario, Canada where snow is always a topic of conversation and
the autumn leaves make everything better.
For more on
Jemi and her writing, visit her following sites:
Jemi and her writing, visit her following sites:
GIVEAWAY DETAILS:
This
tour-wide giveaway is for a $20 Amazon Gift Card. The giveaway is
open internationally.
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open internationally.
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Thanks for
stopping by and be sure to follow Jemi on her week-long tour HERE. You never know what you
might find out. I hope dementia hasn’t touch your family or friends, but in
case it has do you have any tips to share on dealing with this terrible
disease?
stopping by and be sure to follow Jemi on her week-long tour HERE. You never know what you
might find out. I hope dementia hasn’t touch your family or friends, but in
case it has do you have any tips to share on dealing with this terrible
disease?
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Your book will help a lot of other families. It is easy to brush off some stuff as just getting older when it's really not.
ReplyDeleteI hope so!! It's such a confusing disease - for everyone!
DeleteCongrats to Jemi on the book and such a educational one as well!
ReplyDeleteThanks Dez - we've sure lived a lot!
DeleteA huge congratulations to Jemi!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Marcy! I so appreciate you allowing me to visit your blog and your support!
DeleteCongratulations to Jemi!
ReplyDeleteThanks Deniz!!
DeleteMarcy, thanks for being a part of Jemi's tour.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Alex, it's easy to brush off things as just getting older when it really isn't.
Exactly!! Brushing those moments off is something I wish we could go back and change!
DeleteAn important book to read!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Debra!
DeleteHi,
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed the short bite stories. For me, they lightened up the seriousness of the theme. It was good to see the humour.
Shalom aleichem,
Pat Garcia
Thanks, Pat! Humour is such an important tool in all aspects of life - and dementia is no different!
DeleteHuge congratulations to Jemi. I am thrilled to see her very valuable book featured on so many blogs.
ReplyDeleteIt was a book which made me cry, made me laugh in rueful recognition and filled me with awe.
The title says it all - I love Jemi's families attitude to dealing with this challenging and heartbreaking issue.
You're a sweetie, Sue! As you know, the struggle to help someone with dementia is a huge challenge!
DeleteCongrats to Jemi! I wish this book had been out when I was first helping my mom with her dementia. It sounds like a great resource.
ReplyDeleteThanks Natalie! I wish we'd had something as well. It's a tough thing to learn as you go!
DeleteI admit, I have no idea what to look for. Sounds like an interesting book.
ReplyDeleteIt's SUCH a difficult disease to spot/recognize - at least in my opinion. With our hindsight glasses on there were many, many signs we missed!
DeleteI'm trying to do my memoir that way, small snippets. We'll see... I think I've been working on it for too long. LOL
ReplyDeleteIt can be exhausting! Those snippets were the best way for me too!
DeleteThank you for providing information about the early steps.
ReplyDeleteGlad to help, Starzine. It's such a confusing and confounding disease!
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